It's not self-sabotage... It's self-protection…

Ever noticed when business is going well, the money is flowing, your audience is growing… it doesn’t feel as good as you thought it would?

Let’s look at WHY through a trauma-informed lens…

Our minds and bodies are brilliant systems organised around one primary purpose: to keep us SAFE.

(NOT happy or successful)

The way they do that is via the threat detector in your brain (neuroception) which is constantly searching for cues of safety or danger.

If things like self-expression, being seen or receiving were dangerous in the past, that threat detector will see anything similar in the here and now as a sign of danger.

It then communicates danger to your Autonomic Nervous System which says “I’ll protect you!”, and jumps to your aid in the form of dysregulation (fight/flight/freeze/fawn - see my post about the 4 patterns of nervous system dysregulation and how they show up in business here).

This might explain why you find yourself starting a fight with your partner, having the urge to fly off to Bali, or burn your biz to the ground because it ‘isn’t feeling aligned’…

But this success and money IS safe now, so what do I do about it?

By SHOWING our protective parts that we’re safe, not just telling them (they don’t understand words).

We do that via somatic work and nervous system regulation.

This shift changes everything — and it’s the key to sustainable success.

It’s more than possible to widen your capacity for:
🔥Being seen in your truest expression
🔥Holding more attention and clients 👀
🔥Receiving larger sums of money

How do we do it? By supporting our systems to feel safe.

The Superbloom Experience group container is a place to explore this somatic approach to business so you can Be Seen + Receive on a whole new level.

Add your name to the waitlist and I'll be in touch with more details soon.

Love
Tamsin x